A woman, an immigrant, homeless in a car for 7 years, finally at home! -Diya’s story
by “I saw an Indian woman living in a car”, my friend told me. I said, “What, how can that be?” For most Indian (Asian)immigrants, it …
Category: ‘Zo’ Life
Standing up for what is right:
Standing up for what is right is not an easy task to do. It needs great strength and courage. Sometimes it can happen only with …
How can we feel successful?
Success is defined in different ways in different countries and cultures. Most of the time, it is associated with money and power. Is money and …
Expressing our feelings:
We are all human beings, and each of us faces many difficult situations in everyday life. Expressing our feelings is important in most situations. If …
8 things to do when you feel down:
Life is a mystery, and there will always be something that makes us feel down or depressed. It’s perfectly alright to feel down, but it’s …
The greatest loss- loss of Self respect!
These powerful words couldn’t go away without some thinking. Why losing self respect is the greatest loss?
What I have to give to my kids?
Parenting is a learning process for most people. Just like each person is unique, each situation may be unique too. Parents always want their kids to excel in wherever they are. They are looking for ways to provide the best for their kids. Most of the time, they give whatever the kid wants. Sometimes it is challenging when there is a disappointment from any side. As a parent, what we have to give to our kids?
You see when you believe:
‘You see when you believe; it should not be- you believe when you see …as always’. When we come out of our pond of ignorance, when we are ready to learn, we can see a bigger world. To see the infinite possibilities of our mind, we have to leave the doubts in ourselves. To be free as a bird, we have to be broadminded and accepting. We will see wonders when we believe!
How to live with sensitivity:
Accept that ‘sensitivity’ is a part of your personality. What you need to learn is how to manage life as a sensitive person.
Importance of communicating feelings in marriage:
communication is important in a marriage. It is the maintenance part of the marriage. It is important to make sure that, feelings are communicated.
How to find intention of our life:
Intention in life is not definite. Sometimes it comes through experiences in life. Sometimes it come through some incidents happened in our life. Sometimes people realize it through hardships in their life. To perceive that, we need humility and acceptance. Destination or intention in life- you define as you go. Life is a journey. Take a step at a time.
Forgiveness is the essence of love:
The essence of love is forgiveness. Without that, love doesn’t exist. Without forgiveness, love is dead.
Most of the time, forgiveness is looked as if it a kind of weakness. But actually, a person needs lot of strength to forgive someone.
When bad things or sufferings come upon you:
Most of us are people who go through difficult situations in life. Sometimes things happen so unexpectedly. We think of it bad…or why these sufferings only for me? Then life seems so difficult. We may not be ready to accept that. It may take long time to recover from those hurtful feelings. Is there a better way to look when bad things or sufferings come upon you?
Small things in Life
This story is from a forward email. It is supposed to be from Lisa Beamer. It shows the importance of small things in our life.
Just stop about worrying too much, let things happen as it is supposed to. It is not in our hands how Life should happen, but we must do whatever is appropriate. Do the best, without predicting the result. Life is to live every day, enjoying what we have. Small things in life matters a lot!
How to create intimacy in relations?
Intimacy or attachment is a rare gift to treasure. Love without intimacy is possible? Yes. There will be lot of people in marriage who love each other, but there is no intimacy at all. There will be parent child relation, but no intimacy at all. There are siblings who have love, but no intimacy. What is intimacy and how it is important in a fulfilling relationship?